Yes, I just made awkward a noun.
Face it. Awkward situations come up a lot.
And by "a lot" I mean all the time.
Hopefully, you learn to embrace them and laugh at the giant
awkward that is your life, but sometimes it's also fun to rant about
your awkwards because somebody else out there must understand...right?
Case #1:
When you're grooving to Whoomp! There It Is on the elliptical at the gym and
somebody decides to hop on the machine right next to you or directly behind you
when there are clearly 14 other machines available in the surrounding area.
Then, rather than contemplating life's deepest questions or how cool it
would be to be in a music video, you find yourself concerned with
how your butt and calves look from behind.
It's gym anti-creep etiquette to assess the situation before
selecting a machine, so as to not unduly infringe on
someone's bubble of hard-pumping oxygen.
(I thought everyone already knew that.)
And sometimes, when you're feeling especially vigorous--like
on days you just ate three large muffins, six bowls of cereal, and leg of lamb
for breakfast--you might choose to add dance arms to your elliptical workout.
And if someone is within your wingspan, they might lose an eyeball and blame you
for it, when actually they shouldn't have hopped on that machine in the first place.
If you're one of "those" people, consider yourself warned.
Case #2:
When an adult or parent of someone you know/happen to be on a date with
asks you what you are studying in school and when you say "dance performance,"
they tilt their head 20 degrees, half-smile and say, "Oh! How...fun!" followed
by the inevitable, "And what do you see yourself doing with that?"
(Come on, performing arts majors, you know this situation all too well.)
What do I see myself doing with that?
Um.......performing dance.
But half the time you don't even feel like explaining your ambitious,
exciting life goals because you can see in their eyes that that person has already
assumed you have a lower-than-average IQ and probably don't watch the news.
(Not that I'm referencing a specific incident or anything...)
By that time, sharing your ambitions and dreams with that person--gifting
them the knowledge of the goals you've been training nearly your whole life
to attain--doesn't seem the least bit appealing. So you shrug off their ignorance
and silently remind yourself how exciting it will be to prove
all those head-tilting oh-ers wrong in the end.
Case #3:
Stoplights. Really long stoplights. When you're the only one in your car
so you can't strike up a conversation with someone and person in the car next
to you happens to be in the exact same boat. Do you look at them? Do you smile?
Do you inconspicuously check them out? (Guilty.) If you look too long, you'll miss
the light turning green and that's just embarrassing. Plus, then you lose the unspoken
race to the other side of the intersection. Which is way more embarrassing when
you're driving a retired police vehicle with an incredibly zoomy engine and
everybody knows it. What's the best way to handle this situation?
Case #4:
When the doorbell rings and you hate answering the door, so you
peer through the stained glass window to see who it is. And it's the UPS
guy walking back to his truck, having just left a package on your porch.
And then for some unknown reason he turns around and makes
eye contact with you through that tiny diamond shape in the glass
and the jig is up! Not only are you home, but you're also a serious creep.
AWK.
Case #5:
When you say hi to someone you think is looking at you but they are really
saying hi to the person behind you. And everybody else just saw it all go down.
Case #6:
In a word: Facebook.
Seriously, I do that all the time.
